Monday, February 2, 2009

珍惜生命

刚刚,朋友告诉我她的朋友在昨晚,一大班人在聚会后,其中一位遇到车祸,不幸去世了。。他只有21岁,性格和人缘应该也不错。。就这样,在一瞬间的不小心,酿成悲剧。。
我不认识那位的。。很巧的,我的两位朋友都是他的好朋友。。听他们一直说,他的故事,有了种熟悉感。。他们前几天还一起很开心地拜年,聚会。。实在难以接受此时此刻,人已经不在了。。一直希望那只是一个玩笑,一场梦。。但是,事实却很惨忍的摆在眼前。。
不知为什么,很感慨。。
车祸,其实是最残酷的。。马路如虎口,不得不相信。。之前完全没任何心理准备,只需要一秒,就可以夺走人们宝贵的生命。。
我从不敢想象,身边朋友,今天还好好的,隔天却不在这世上的,那种感觉。。也极不希望我会遇到这一类的事情。。
人生,真的很无常吧?一直说要珍惜身边人,但又有几个是这么想,而且真正做到呢?
坦白说,我觉得我自己只会心里想,但从不敢说出口,行动方面也总是会有迟疑。。就是这么矛盾,懦弱。。看着朋友们为他伤心,我也不知该怎么安慰,只可以提醒自己,一定要珍惜所拥有的一切。。
读着这篇文章的朋友们,不论是常见面,少见面,还是不曾见过面的。。很想趁自己有这股勇气的这一刻,说声对不起及谢谢。。谢谢你们成为我的朋友!
还有,请珍惜生命,珍惜身边人,珍惜你所拥有的。。不要一直埋怨上天的不公平,要感谢它赐给你的一切。。不论遇到多大的挫折与困难,它这么安排,一定有它的道理。。
希望大家在未来,出入平安及身体健康。。
为已经离开的他诚心的祈祷,愿他安息。。。

* 死亡教会人一切,如同考试之后公布的结果——虽然恍然大悟,但为时晚矣~!*

* 生命中,不断地有人离开或进入。于是,看见的,看不见了;记住的,遗忘了。
生命中,不断地有得到和失落。于是,看不见的,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。
然而,看不见的,是不是就等于不存在?记住的,是不是永远不会消失? *

10 comments:

Miss Nobody said...

yea i kinda heard my frenz told me his friend died in an accident.
wondering whether is it the same person...

so yea i think you kinda say what i wanted to say earlier, death really makes you appreciate others more..

but only for some time then we forget again zzzz

chiachyi said...

I think the friend who you mentioned in the blog is my friend's friend.. TARC student, rite?

Anonymous said...

yea chia chyi he's a TARC student.

Alic3 said...

u all noe onot i read from newspaper... the driver is ang guan kun.. still rmb him? he was our schoolmate when form1.. he was injured but unfortunately his friend at the front seat died...

~yq~ said...

think all of us talking the same person..so till the end actually our friends are indirectly related..one of the relation is he's my senior's boyfriend's best friend..=.=
alice,i duno it at first de lih..just knew the other one in the car also injured badly..hope he will be ok soon..=(

CHerYL said...

very sorry to hear abt this. ...
Hope he rest in peace.

I read the newspaper today and hv bad instinct on it. Who knows he is really the person you know.

Anonymous said...

yoon seng here.
what happened? i was like WTF when i read the comments. guan qun??? =.=
feel sorry for the friend, i dono whether i noe this guy onot. n, accident reali... =.= i oso nearly go to hell or heaven dy.
n i got 1 hypothesis: don go out during festive days. i met with accident on xmas nite, lucky it was red light or i may b cacat or dead. now... cny. lol lol lol. srsly, 珍惜生命, n anyone mind telling me this news?

Ming Hui said...

车祸真的很可怕。。。
我的小学同学也是因为车祸去世的。。。
而爸爸也经历过严重的车祸。。。
还好捡回条命。。。
不过留下不少的后患就是了。。。
世事难料啊。。。
珍惜身边的人。。。

Anonymous said...

所以啊,要多多珍惜周边的人哦~
就好像我拉,哈哈~
珍惜你就好像珍惜自己一样
所以你一定要过得比我好噢
说好啦,勾勾手反悔是猪头~嘻嘻
支持你,永远。

~yq~ said...

哈哈,当然!我一直都珍惜你的!=)